LSR eBook 19 - How Women Can Be Irresistibly Attractive Sexually - An Explicit Conversation
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1. You must know, understand and take advantage of your body! A great turn on for a man is seeing how much he excites you, knowing that whatever he does to you in bed will drive you crazy. But the only way for him get the best out of you in bed is if you know which spots on your body really turn you on. You have to know your body and yourself deeply; so the least you can do is start finding these spots right now!
Stand in front of a mirror and take off all of your clothes, looking at yourself very closely. Watch yourself. Observe your body. Look at your breasts, their color and type. Look at your waist and hips. Look at your vagina. Touch yourself and watch your reactions. Scratch all of your body gently. Massage yourself and find out what kind of touching gives feels best; discover the best sensations, what excites you more and what relaxes you most.
The female genitalia are composed of eight areas: the pubic area, the outer lips, clitoris, urethra or "urinary tract", the inner lips, vagina, perineum and anus.
The pubic area is covered with hair and when it is gently touched, you will feel an exciting sensation. There is great sexual energy flowing through this region, however, it is almost always forgotten in intercourse or masturbation. Touch it, feel the pubic area, make gentle circular movements with your fingers and nails. You will surely feel a distinct burning, like a little fireball that starts to grow inside of you - this is your sexual energy flowing through your body.
The clitoris is an organ full of nerve endings. It extends internally along the inner and outer lips, and what we see is just a small piece of it. The clitoris is the same as the penis in that it has the same number of nerve endings, and it is very sensitive to touch. When touched it becomes hard and increases in size. Try touching it with your finger slowly, and keep increasing the speed of the movement. Feel what pleases you the most, either with a strong or soft touch. Discover the way that pleases you most so you will be able to show your partner exactly what excites you. After all, your quality of life and sex life will only improve and be in harmony with one another if you know all the ways to turn yourself on!
The urethra is also sensitive to touch, and if stimulated and touched softly can give you the most amazing sensations. But this area is extremely sensitive and if you rub it the wrong way, you could get a urinary infection. It is important to remember that not all women have the same feelings at the same points on their bodies. Some are more sensitive in some spots than others. This is one of the reasons why it is extremely important to know which are your favorite places and learn more about your body.
The vagina increases in size when excited. The inner and outer lips swell and deepen to receive the penis. It is very easy to stimulate the vagina, just by touching, kissing and sucking it, and it will be lubricated for easy penetration.
The anus is also a really sensitive region of the body. It is irrigated by several nerve endings leading to other parts of the female genitalia. In some women, the stimulation of the vagina is more pleasurable than that of the clitoris, but once again we must remember that not all women are the same and some women may find some forms of stimulation more pleasurable than others.
So, if you don't feel comfortable with certain kinds of stimulation, avoid them and tell your partner that they don't please you.
Now that you know the physiology of your golden zones, it is timeto discover the physical reactions of these spots.
Take a long, relaxing bath. Afterwards, don't put on any clothes, lie down in bed and start touching yourself gently. Touch yourself with your fingertips and your nails, see which way pleases you the most. Start with the lower part of your body, touch your feet, your legs, your genitalia, your pubis, your stomach. Move upwards and touch your breasts and nipples. Touching all the parts of your body and find out which ones please you. Put your fingers into your mouth and lick and suck them. Lick your arms, your hands, and note the importance of the type of touch. Hold your breasts and massage your nipples. See what happens when they are touched, and imagine what could happen when a man sees this type of reaction.
Pull open the outer lips of your vagina with your fingers; notice its color and feel its softness. Gently insert your fingertip (make sure it is clean) into your vagina and make circular movements, so as to touch it all. Squeeze your finger with your vagina muscles and experiment the same sensation as a penis inside your vagina. Take out your finger and rub it on your outer vagina area. Rub your clitoris. Use more than one finger, try using your entire hand. Put some pressure on it, try pressing hard and soft, seeing which way pleases you most. Sit in front of a mirror and look inside your vagina. See the reaction of your body to your touching and stroking, the difference between the outer and inner lips. See your clitoris, its size and color. Examine the entrance of your vagina and see how lubricated it is.
In the beginning you might feel a little embarrassed, but don't worry and move on! If this is your first time doing this, it is perfectly normal to feel a little ashamed. Just don't let it get to you. The more you learn about your desires, the more you can teach your partner how to satisfy you - and of course, how to satisfy him in return. The more you satisfy yourself, the sexier you will feel.
You have to remember that in order to be a sex goddess in all sexual relationships, you have to like and know exactly what you are doing. But certainly sometimes you may have to do some things that don't please you greatly in order to satisfy and surprise your partner, giving him enormous pleasure. Sometimes you even end up surprising yourself with new pleasures. Sometimes, giving pleasure to your partner is one of the most satisfying things that you can do for him, and of course, it will be satisfying for both of you.
2. The power of the eyes. One way of making yourself extremely irresistible to your man is making yourself an active party in the sexual relationship, but making him believe that he is control. This technique has the double effect of making both of you satisfied with your excitement and performance.
Men can easily be excited through visual stimulation. They react in a quicker and more intense way than women do, for instance. That is why men's magazines full of naked women are really popular, while women's magazines with naked men have little success. Just seeing a woman's bottom, breasts or vagina can erotically stimulate men. So women should pay attention to this and take advantage of it in order to tease the men they want. This can be done by exposing cleavage, the height of one's skirt, tight blouses, tight pants, sexy bikinis.
One of the most famous examples of this technique is the actress Sharon Stone in the movie Basic Instinct, in the interrogation scene, when she opens and crosses her legs in front of several male policemen wearing nothing but a tight dress and no panties.
This is just one of the strategies that you may use, but only in certain situations because we are not saying that to get a good man you should go out without underwear and randomly flash your vagina. But you can use this and other visual strategies to maintain and hold your man's sexual interest.
This panties trick is one of the best, and it can vary. In another movie Sharon Stone used the same artifice of taking off her panties while having dinner in a restaurant and throwing them onto her partner's plate. In fact, you don't have to show your partner that you are not wearing any underwear. All you have to do is whisper in his ear "I forgot to put my panties on tonight", or "I was feeling really hot and had to take off my panties", in the middle of a party, event, or dinner. After saying it, just look at him and watch him go crazy. Believe us, he will not let you go all night long, and will be counting down the minutes to get home and ravage you. If you wish to create a situation where you can show him that you are not wearing any panties in public, PLEASE DO SO, because the effect that this single thing can have on him is just unbelievable.
There is also one thing that is imperceptible to most women, as many women don't realize that the smallest things really count for men, just as they do for women; like calling him to do up the last button of your dress. This reminds him that he is needed as a male. Give him the opportunity to demonstrate his sensitivity and tenderness. Another way to excite him through visual stimulation is using sexy lingerie. Most men go crazy with the sight of a woman in black lingerie, with black stockings, with or without panties - that detail is up to you.
Today there is a great selection of lingerie on the market, like the bikini type and those that have an opening at the bottom, allowing him to have a good look at you, especially when you bend over in front of him, on purpose. Other pieces of clothing that excite him visually are skirts and vinyl panties, or other rubber material, especially in black. You could be wondering if all of this clothing and lingerie could give him the wrong idea about you. Of course not! Men don't think that their women are women of disrespect just because they want variety and surprises, giving him the most pleasurable visual stimulation. The opposite is true. Your man will be delighted to know that you are doing something or wearing different clothing just to please him, especially if you say that this is the first time that you are doing it (even it is not really true...). He will love to know that the things that you are wearing and showing him are for his eyes alone.
But you must know that all of these techniques depend only on you. Only you are able to do these things and surprise him. Don't let your body stop you from doing anything; after all, you are not in a modeling contest. So think sexy and you will be sexy!
The man you are with loves you for everything you are and everything you represent. If you dress sexy, act sexy and make the most of situations, there is no excuse! He will be so surprised and impressed that he will not even be concerned if you need to lose some weight or your legs are not perfect or your behind is a little big.
There is one more way of surprising your man: the "shaving fascination". Shaving your pubic hair should not be thought of as perverted. The visual stimulation that a shaved vagina creates in a man's eyes and body are amazing. The act of shaving your pubic hair will make your man look at you with different eyes. If by any chance you don't like the way your vagina looks; or if you notice that he doesn't like it or doesn't realize what you have done, don't panic, in just three weeks your hair will grow back. There are many ways of shaving your pubic hair, and if you and your partner become fascinated by this, you can find some permanent ways of doing it, such as electrolysis, which will keep your vagina always smooth, apart from being a safe method.
There are at least two good reasons why you should shave your pubic hair from time to time and drive your man crazy. First of all there is the fact that he will be able to look at your whole vagina, with your outer lips and clitoris unobstructed. Secondly, when a woman shaves her pubic area, she insinuates that she is opening herself completely to her man, that she is surrendering to him (but in fact we all know that the real person in control is you!). Because YOU took the first step.
Best of all is that all women who shave their pubic area say that their men go down on them more often. The pubic area becomes more sensitive and inviting. You really should try it!!!
It is proven that most men get really excited during oral sex. The smell, taste and technique make it easy to know when the woman is coming. There is no more sensitive way of realizing how hard the clitoris is than having it sucked and licked up and down with the tip of your man's tongue.
But, of all of these techniques, the one that has the best results is something that most of the time you decide to do alone: masturbation.
Try to imagine how it could be for a man to watch his own woman completely vulnerable - in his eyes of course (after all, masturbation is a really intimate ritual in a private moment) - when she touches herself in ways that only she knows. There is nothing that excites a man more than watching his woman having the best time, if you know what we mean, in front of him.
3. Your body on his body. There are lots of ways to maintain contact between your body and his body. But there are two ways that will make your man go wild and should take place before penetration. But you must pay attention and do this BEFORE penetration, otherwise, you won't be able to hold him any longer.
- Your nipples should be hard, bite if not, touch him and they will get hard. Make a path with your hard nipples across his body, making quick stops and circular movements in the sensitive spots on his body. If necessary, use some lubricating oil. Go down his back, from top to bottom. Place your nipples in all of his orifices, his ears, belly button, and of course his mouth. But when you reach his mouth, don't forget to slow down and let him suck them. Finish this journey with circular movements with your nipples on his penis. Just the sight of this scene will make him horny as hell! Enjoy it!
- To arouse his animal instinct, if you have not shaved your pubic area, or if your hair hasn't grown back, one of the best tips that we can give you is: rub your pubic hair gently along his entire body. He must be lying on his back and you move gently along his body, feeling extreme pleasure. You will get so excited that you will feel wet the minute you start. Go up and down as if rubbing against a giant penis. Go to his knees, his toes, and let him insert one of his toes in your vagina and feel it, just feel it. Don't hesitate, and go up to his face, his forehead, nose and of course, his mouth, making a really long stop in this spot!!
Remember always that YOU ARE IN CHARGE AND NOBODY ELSE! After all, do whatever you feel like doing! So, enjoy it all within your own comfort zone.