CLS eBook 9 - Be Irresistibly Attractive in Your Personal and Business Relationships
Ask Yourself. Am I Present? Awaken the Observer and Come Present to Now.
With great gratitude, appreciation and praise we welcome you to the creation space of self love, courage, inspiration and the peace of mind that comes from gently balancing and lowering your brainwaves.
Listening to this ALPHA wave will assist you in creating a transformative meditative state, that will quiet your mind, relieve tension in your body, soothe your spirit, and help you remember how good it feels to be fully present in this beautiful moment of now.
Listen to this ALPHA brainwave as you study the following lesson.
Attraction Principle #1
Become Aware of Self in this eternal Now
Nature is self correcting; evolution requires it.
Self awareness is different than self-centered and ego centered.
You are the most important person to provide self correction in your life.
Your being self aware doesn't mean that others can't also have self awareness.
Self awareness affords supreme generosity and gratitude to yourself and others.
Self awareness leads to being present in this moment of eternal now and is good for civilization.
Attraction Principle #2
Unhook yourself from the future
Become 99% oriented in the present while knowing where you're going.
Let go of 'should' and 'could' goals.
Stop needing a better future.
Make more decisions based on your intuitive read of today, not projections.
Replace striving with enjoyment.
Attraction Principle #3
Over-respond to every event
Every event becomes an opportunity, even if it starts out as a problem.
Over-responding is a choice; over-reacting isn't.
Over-responding = experimenting.
Over-responding reduces need for having to make big decisions.
Attraction Principle #4
Build Reserves In All Areas
Reserves are far more than sufficiency.
With super-reserves, fear dissipates.
Reserves provide room for creativity.
Reduce what is draining your reserves.
Stockpile and buy more than you need.
Attraction Principle #5
Add Value Just For the Joy Of It
Identify unique ways you add value.
Discover what you totally love doing.
Adding value doesn't mean giving more.
Adding value provides you with value.
Link your value to current needs/trends.
Add the right value and the money will come.
Attraction Principle #6
Affect Others Profoundly
Help people discover who they are and what they have to share with others.
Believe what people say.
Totally accept the feelings people have.
Point out new truths and paradigms.
Have a message and freely share it.
Be true to yourself; profundity follows.
Attraction Principle #7
Market Your Talents Shamelessly
Distinguish talents from skills/services.
Distinguish marketing from promoting.
Find clever ways to serve everyone.
Be a model of what you are offering.
Sell people on themselves, not you.
Develop a Capillary Marketing System.
Embarrassment disappears when you really know what you offer/deliver.
Attraction Principle #8
Become Attractive To Yourself
Let go of, walk away from or change that which isn't attractive to you.
Do stuff based on whims, not just logic.
Disconnect from others' expectations.
Stop doing what is bad for you.
Stop being ; start being good.
Under-promise yourself and others.
Become a Problem-Free Zone.
Attraction Principle #9
Get a Fulfilling Life, Not Just an Impressive Lifestyle
Base your life on internals versus externals.
Let go of trappings, possessions, roles, clothes, goals that are no longer you.
Identify what is nourishing for you.
Spend 100% of your time with those who give you life and energize you.
Attraction Principle #10
Promise Little, Deliver Everything
Nature doesn't promise; it just does.
Learn to under-promise, as a habit.
Design a life where promises aren't necessary.
Only do business with those who over-deliver.
Distinguish between delivering vs doing.
Attraction Principle #11
Create a Vacuum That Pulls You
Stop pushing yourself; create and craft environments that pull you forward.
Work in teams on all goals/projects.
Have a community you serve or host.
Design environments, which stimulate your creativity daily.
Unhook yourself from who you were.
Attraction Principle #12
Eliminate Delay In All Forms
Time is increasingly expensive.
Opportunities come & go more quickly.
Refuse to wait: Educate others on what is required in their dealings with you.
Become a rapid learner.
Eliminate fear by establishing reserves.
Use filters to screen what comes near.
Get and stay ahead of the techno curve.
Attraction Principle #13
Get Your Personal Needs Met
Unmet needs consume 25-90% of life.
If you are needy, you attract needy people.
Increasing your integrity reduces your needs automatically.
If you can't get needs met, they are either wants or you are out of integrity.
Become needless, yet still very human.
Attraction Principle #14
Thrive On the Details
Details are like DNA; they craft reality.
The future starts as a tiny detail.
Humans are becoming pickier.
Continuous improvement is far easier.
The details reveal the big picture even more than perspective does.
Increasingly, subtleties sell products.
Attraction Principle #15
Tolerate Nothing
Toleration's are what you put up with.
You are tolerating 100+ things; make a list and start working down that list, eliminating things you tolerate.
Toleration's cause friction and drain us.
You can be tolerant, without tolerating.
Find a friend or coach to play with this.
Attraction Principle #16
Show Others How To Please You
Don't make people guess.
People who care, want to please you; agree to please each other.
Give people a chance to win with you.
Show people before it's critical/needed.
Show people how to listen, show love.
Show people how to respond to you.
Attraction Principle #17
Endorse Your Worst Weakness
Endorsement is more than acceptance.
Behind your worst weakness is your biggest strength, waiting to be released.
Eliminate shame by freely discussing your worst weakness.
Be grateful for/respect your weakness.
Delegate your weaknesses; focus on strengths.
Attraction Principle #18
Sensitize Yourself
Increase your awareness in general.
Eliminate numbing substances/actions.
Identify what motivates/drives you.
Act on intuition, inklings and whims.
Come to enjoy full range of emotions.
Invest in stimulating environments.
Attraction Principle #19
Perfect Your Environments
All environments evolve us; it's natural.
Types of environments to perfect:
Home | Family | Body | Spiritual
Relationships | Intangibles/Feelings
Memories/Ideas | Technology
Let your environments do the work.
Clean up polluted environments.
Attraction Principle #20
Develop Ample Character
Choose to want to have character.
Define what character is for you and become that person.
Develop a personal style that's you.
Raise your personal standards.
Attraction Principle #21
See Perfection In the Eternal Present
The present moment is a synthesis of the past.
The physical universe never lies - it is always supporting you. Become a person of timing.
Perfect isn't necessarily an ideal/desired to strive for as the flow is always perfect.
When you can see perfection in the present, even in a very difficult situation, you are properly oriented to improve or resolve it - stop the urge.
The past and future belong to time, the present belongs to the eternal and that’s why it's called a present.
Attraction Principle #22
Be Unconditionally Constructive
You can tell a person the truth and also be unconditionally constructive.
With total self-respect comes a naturally positive, constructive view of others.
Stop using competitive thoughts and terms, instead use cooperation.
See the possibility, not the fault.
Be thrilled for and about people.
Attraction Principle #23
Orient Around Your Values
Values are the interests that you are naturally drawn to spend time on.
When needs are met, values get clear.
Values-based goals are easier to reach.
Expressed values bring fulfillment.
Expressed values lead to opportunities.
Attraction Principle #24
Simplify Everything
Life can be rich and simple.
Attraction needs space to work well.
Boredom can be the gateway to peace.
Find a virtual assistant.
Install systems and automation.
Extra space = much more time.
Do, delegate or dump your chores.
Attraction Principle #25
Master Your Craft
Mastery is greater than competence.
Mastery means you can now learn.
Invent a better way to deliver your work.
Continuously innovate, for the joy of it.
Surround yourself with people who continually stimulate and challenge you.
Have inter developmental relationships.
Attraction Principle #26
Recognize and Tell the Truth
Truth is far more than honesty.
Truth-knowing/telling are skills to learn.
Want to discover and know the truth.
Reorient yourself and your life around truth as it comes to you.
Have reserves so you can afford truth.
Hang out with those who enjoy truth.
Attraction Principle #27
Have a Vision
A vision is there; it just hasn't occurred.
Distinguish between vision & "a cause."
Don't search for a vision; let it find you.
A vision isn't you; it is distinct, separate.
A visionary can extrapolate from a current trend and see an endpoint.
Anyone can become a visionary.
Attraction Principle #28
Be Real, Be Human
Replace pretense with laughter at self.
Stop trying to become somebody.
Give up spiritual ambition.
Stop putting positive spins on events.
Drop the jargon and vague language.
Don't self-define by your role(s).
Become responsible in all areas.