LSR eBook 15 - How To Find And Work Your Woman’s G-Spot - An Explicit Conversation
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The G-spot is responsible for female orgasms during vaginal penetration without clitoral stimulation. The G-spot is a small, wrinkled area, about the size of a bean, located on the inside of the vagina, about 2 inches from the entrance, above the pubic bone on the frontal wall. Try to imagine a watch right at the entrance of the vagina, facing you. The G-spot is at about 12 o'clock. It is an extremely sensitive area of the human body with a surface similar to the roof of the mouth. When stimulated, the G-spot swells up, while at the same time softening, and often reaching the size of a nickel.
Men: for some women, non-stop stimulation of the G-spot can lead them to powerful orgasms. For other women, the same stimulation can be extremely unpleasant and painful. To find out which category they belong to, you'll just have to try, so go for it, what are you waiting for? It is best to experiment using your fingers, and many women will only experience g-spot orgasms through manual stimulation...at least while they are getting used to the new kind of pleasure it can bring! Remember, fingers are sometimes better than penises because of their ability to maneuver better. You can always hit the g-spot with your fingers, whereas it's a hit or miss situation with your penis. Also, because many women aren't familiar with the feeling of having their g-spot stimulated, you often need to have complete control over how hard, fast, soft, or gently you are touching her there....and at the beginning she may need to talk through her new feelings, as initially the g-spot will go from intensely pleasurable to mildly or strongly uncomfortable and back again until they are used to the new sensations..at which point, look out - she will never want to let you out of bed! Until then, just be patient and enjoy the wonderful sensations of your fingers gliding over her g-spot, and way the g-spot gets softer and fuller as she relaxes and gets hotter and hotter.
Start by gently gliding your fingers over her clitoris. Most women prefer gentle, circular motions. If she pulls away slightly, this is your communication that she prefers even more gentle stimulation. If she pushes toward you or turns slightly, she is letting you know you likes it and wants slightly more pressure. Many women can enjoy g-spot stimulation much more right after a clitoral orgasm....so play for a while, maybe giving her oral stimulation (see oral sex: for men) until she reaches an orgasm that way.
Then slide a finger or two into her vagina, moving it slowly in and out a few times. Now you can begin letting one of your fingers brush deliberately across her g-spot as you move in and out. Some women love what we call the butterfly stroke - with two fingers inside her, draw one and then the other across the g-spot. Others love a finger just placing gentle pressure on the g-spot. Hold a finger on her g-spot and press in, then release, then press, then release, and don't forget to play with letting the finger slide around and massage up and down the g-spot every few seconds. She may also love a finger pressed lightly into her g-spot that moves up and down very slightly while maintaining the light pressure then entire time. If she becomes very still and quiet this is usually a sign that she is experiencing very deep pleasure. Or she may thrust her hips toward you, getting more stimulation from your fingers, letting you know she is ready for firmer stimulation.
Many women love to have their nipples sucked on at the same time you are stimulating their g-spot. Try it and see if your woman is one of them! If she is you will not have to wait long to find out. And...if you want to be even more of a superstar in bed you can play with her g-spot while giving her oral sex. Take her clitoris gently in your mouth and gently suck on it continuously while simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it it. If you combine this technique with your finger technique she will find herself having mind-blowing orgasms every time. As an added benefit, the g-spot orgasm is so intense that you may find yourself incredibly close to orgasm yourself.
Be aware that the g-spot orgasm can often take a little time, especially for a woman not used to having orgasms there. Women who have never had a g-spot orgasm or are very new to it will almost always experience a burning sensation that can feel painful, or feel they need to pee just before this kind of orgasm. Slow way down, encourage them that they are not actually about to pee and ask them to try and stay with it. After a few moments she will usually get through that part and at that point will be only moments or a couple of minutes away from a powerful orgasm. You will be richly rewarded when she experiences orgasms possibly more intense than any she has ever had before with anyone. Know that she will always remember you when you give her one of these orgasms! Some women even ejaculate during g-spot orgasms, which, if you have never experienced this, is a rare and wonderful treat.
Once she is used to having orgasms through g-spot stimulation she may begin to have them during regular intercourse as well. Again, remember that she will have g-spot orgasms more quickly, easily and intensely if she has already had a clitoral orgasm. Try giving her a clitoral orgasm and then immediately slip your penis inside her and rest there for a few moments while she enjoys the after-effects of the first orgasm. The best positions for G-spot stimulation with your penis inside your partner are those where the woman is on top, but on her back; when being penetrated from behind, the best being the doggy position. Women also like the man on top on his knees penetrating them with their legs around you, or sitting on your lap (in this position they will do most of the moving.
Before starting, make sure your hands are clean and your fingernails short and well trimmed. After all, if your hands aren't clean do you think she'll let you anywhere near her sacred garden?
Tips for women to get familiar with their g-spot: Before trying to find their G-spot with a partner, women may want to find and explore it on their own: Here are some tips you can share with your woman if she is curious.
1. When you are excited and wet, squat down with both feet on the floor, introduce your finger into your vagina towards your belly button looking for a wrinkled area like the roof of your mouth. Your finger should move around inside your vagina clockwise and counterclockwise. Feel which point excites you the most.
2. Lying on your back, bend and open your legs. When you feel excited and wet, introduce your finger into your vagina and find the same wrinkled area. Your finger should move around inside your vagina clockwise and counterclockwise. You may use water-based lubricating oil. Again, feel which point excites you the most. Experiment and find out what kinds of touch please you the most there.
3. Lying face down, place a pillow under your belly to prop your bottom up. Use a vibrator to penetrate yourself and move your hips in both clockwise and counterclockwise directions, trying to find the area that best responds to the touch. When you find it, I am sure that you will know where it is, because you will not want to stop touching yourself.
4. When you are ready, try it with your man! Be sure and tell him what you've found out about what feels good, what pressure, and what sort of movement. And you can be sure that he will find some ways you haven't experienced yet!