LSR eBook 14 - How to Masturbate Your Man - An Explicit Conversation
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The secret to great sex is foreplay.
This is the moment where all our skills and knowledge have the most important impact. And when it comes to foreplay, everything starts with the hands. The ability to touch is one of the most powerful and amazing reflections of sexual expression, and with the techniques that you are about to see HERE, you are going to give your partner the best orgasm he has ever had in his whole life, WE GUARANTEE IT!!
There is nothing more exciting to a man than being touched, especially being touched down there on his penis; his manhood.
The fact that women don't have a penis leave them at a disadvantage about knowing how to give men pleasure. But one of the great mistakes that you can make is thinking that what excites you and gives you delicious sensations, around your clitoris or vagina for example, will be the same for him. If this is what you think, you are wrong!!
The penis is a completely different organ. For most women, clitoris touching must be delicate, but for most men, penis touching must be firm and gentle. So the first step is knowing how to hold his penis. It is really easy, imagine that you are holding something like a tennis racquet for example - firmly and still. The most sensitive parts of the penis are the head and the area around it, the long extension on the lower side of the penis, and probably the most sensitive spot of all is the skin that connects the head and the body of the penis on the lower side. If you have all of these spots in mind, and use your hands and fingers properly you will hold him next to you forever, or as long as you want him.
One thing that has to be perfectly clear is that you are dealing with the most precious part of the anatomy of your partner's body. There is no other part of his body that defines his manhood like his penis. So any physical and positive emotional attention to this area are always welcome.
One of the greatest advantages of masturbation is that it can be done anywhere, even with people around and if you do it right, they won't even notice. The place is usually one of the most exciting ingredients of this practice; the risk of being caught doing something forbidden, in a forbidden place is really something...
Often restaurants can be ideal places, though you will need a napkin that is large enough to cover his lap. There are also other places such as airplanes, stairs, your boss's office, public bathrooms, the kitchen sink when you are about to leave for some event. Remember that men are extremely turned on by good masturbation outside the walls of the bedroom. Try it!!
But before starting this delicious performance, you need to know exactly what to do and how to do it, but there is a little detail that makes a big difference - your presentation. You probably already know this, but we want you to know that good presentation has nothing to do with being beautiful, it has to do with being accepted.
Masturbation depends entirely on your hands, so if they are not presentable, with dry skin and rough nails, your plans will be ruined and provoke unpleasant feelings in your partner. For him, the way you treat your hands represents the care you have for him. You should remember to remove all jewelry that might hurt him.
You will certainly have heard of some or most of the techniques that we are going to present here, but the more you know, the better you will perform and give your partner great pleasure. All the techniques require at least the use of one of your hands, and you need to be on your knees between his legs, or seated, allowing a great amount of movements. Don't forget to ask him if he would like to watch, because most men just love it!
Before we give you our tips, you must learn to hold a penis. There are different ways of doing it depending on the position that you and your partner are in.
1. Put your thumb on the base of the lower side, with all of your fingers around the body of the penis and your pinky resting against his pelvis.
2. Make a circle with your thumb and index finger and move it up and down the penis.
Now that you know how and where to hold, it is time for action. But first remember three really important things to make your touch perfect:
- Touch it gently
- Touch it softly
- Touch it in a constant rhythm.
Once you learn how to manipulate it, and bearing these three important things in mind, he will certainly reach a climax and our tips will just drive him crazier. When you see he is getting there, you should increase the speed of your movements. But the minute he comes, stop your movements. You can choose between holding his penis firmly or relaxing your hand completely, just supporting it.
If you intend to keep the manipulation going, or go from manipulation to penetration, when you feel that his penis is hard enough and about to come, gently and guide it inside your vagina, which should be completely wet at this point and give him a passionate kiss.
Now we will present some tips on how to make things go more smoothly and make him feel that he is the only man on earth that has the pleasure of being touched in this way.
1. Take his penis as if it were dough and squeeze it.
2. Touch gently the lower side of the penis with the palm of your hand while pressing it towards his body.
3. Rub his penis in both of your hands as if you had something really hot in your hands.
4. Lubricate his penis with oil, in preferably hot (test it beforehand and be careful not to burn him!), and spread this oil on your body, your stomach, thighs and face. You could also hit yourself with his hard penis in the same place on your body. Don't worry because it won't hurt you or him! You will just have to deal with the consequences of this act.
5. Make two "rings" with your thumb and index finger of each hand. Place them around the middle of the penis and pull them gently up and down at the same moment.
6. Make the same rings at base of the penis. With the hand that is at the top, go up to the head of the penis and do the same with the other hand, returning to the base and doing it again. While one hand is going up, the other one should be firmly holding the base.
7. When touching his penis, put some pressure on his perinea area - that magic spot between his testicles and anus that corresponds to the female G-spot and would be the outside area of the prostate - use a finger and put some pressure on it in the same rhythm as the movements on his penis.
8. Talking about the perinea area, you could also manipulate it with one hand while touching his testicles. Support his balls with your other hand, or with your thumb and index finger gently pull down the skin around the balls (the perinea area) and repeat the movement as if you were trying to draw milk. This can also be done when you notice that he is coming, he won't believe the feeling; it is guaranteed excitement, making his orgasm longer and more pleasurable. And once again, don't forget to be gentle.
9. There are also some men that like to have their testicles touched and rubbed after orgasms. This gives them a feeling of lightness after ejaculation. But be careful and test it beforehand, because some men get really sensitive after orgasms. But if it is done with tenderness and softness, he won't be able to say no.
10. Squeeze your breasts together and lubricate them. Make him rub his penis between them. Drive his penis to your wet nipples and rub them with it. Or, when he is rubbing his penis between your breasts you could play with your nipples - he will go crazy! Men just don't know what to do when we touch ourselves in front of them.
11. One variation on the tip above is to spread the lubricating oil on your butt and let him rub his hard penis on you. Lie face down on the bed over some pillows but don't let him penetrate you. MAKE HIM SUFFER A LITTLE!!
12. You could also place more pillows below your stomach and open your legs letting him rub his penis on the outer lips of your vagina and clitoris. But once again, hold him if he tries to penetrate you. ENJOY THE MOMENT!
13. In the middle of the night, put your hands in his pants and start manipulating him. At the first he will be sleepy and won't realize what is going on, he will think he is dreaming. Make his dream come true and masturbate him until his penis is so hard that you can penetrate yourself with it. But be sure that your vagina is really wet and waiting for his penis.
14. Masturbate him until his penis is hard and tie him to the bed. Stay right in front of him and start touching yourself. Touch your nipples, squeeze your breasts and masturbate yourself. Masturbate yourself and show him that you know exactly what turns you on. Let him watch you go crazy, scream and yell while he is still tied to the bed. He will go mad! At the very end, take off the bonds and let him penetrate you like never before!
15. Wait for him to get back from work and go for him right at the door. Tell him just to look into your eyes while you slide your hand into his pants. Masturbate him until his penis is hard and hot and NEVER stop looking into his eyes. When you feel that he is about to come, put his penis in your vagina or mouth, whatever you prefer. Make him penetrate you right then and there, don't go to any other room of the house. You should be standing or lying down. Try it!!
16. Lubricate your hands and hold his penis at the base, with your index finger touching his body, your wrist will be inverted and you will see the back of your hand. With the other hand hold the base of the penis gently but firmly. You will be performing an up and down movement, but going up on one side and down on the other side. With your wrist inverted at the base of his penis, start going from the bottom to the top with the hand that was at the bottom, until it reaches the head, then open your hand and pass it over the head; now hold his penis gently and go down with your wrist not inverted anymore, with your thumb facing you. This movement is as if you were turning around a glass that is facing the table. When passing your hand over the head you make a little twisting movement with your hand in a position as if holding a glass. Repeat this movement as many times you please, and if you get tired, just change hands and start all over again. But be careful, because after this he will be ready to come. Good luck!
17. Lubricate your hands and interlace your fingers. Leave a little hole between your thumbs so the penis can pass through it. Move you hands up and down over his penis, turning them left and right, compressing the penis as if it were your tight, wet vagina.
18. Using the same technique of interlacing your fingers but without the twist, when going up and down with your hands, make some pulsing movements, just squeezing and relaxing. Go up and down with your hands as if doing the contractions you can do with your vaginal muscles. You can use this pulsating movement in any kind of manipulation, especially when you feel that he is about to come. You can increase the orgasmic sensation and when he starts coming you will feel his penis pulsing. Move your hands in the same rhythm until he ejaculates.
19. Do you know that movement you make with your hands when feeling cold, rubbing them together? So, pretend that his penis is feeling cold and your obligation is to keep it warm. Lubricate your hands and put his penis between them. Start the rubbing movements from the base of the penis base to its head. But concentrate the movements from the base to the middle.
Of course there are other ways of masturbating your partner's penis, but they are going to be just variations on the same theme, and variations of the tips we have just given you.
Men say that what makes good sex is the sensation of feeling hot, moisture and a tight fit. So when masturbating your man, always use almost hot lubricating oil and put soft pressure on your hands, which at this point are substituting your vagina.
As we have said before, the head of the penis is an extremely sensitive area, and like some women can't stand having their clitoris touched, some men can't stand being stimulated in this area. So you need to tune in to this and avoid this area if this is the case, otherwise you could ruin the moment.
But the greatest tip of all is CONSTANT COMMUNICATION. You have to communicate with your partner all the time, asking him if you are placing the right pressure on the right area, or if the movement that you are making is pleasant. You know that there are no rules to ejaculation, so it will depend on the kind of pressure with which you are manipulating him and how often he has intercourse. If he is in a steady relationship, he will take a little more time to come than a man that does not have Sex so often. But you are responsible for his ejaculation, and if you don't want him to come yet, you won't be able to stop him, but with these techniques, you will know how postpone it.
Go for it! Use all of our techniques, which are now your techniques! SATISFACTION GUARANTEED!! He will be much more satisfied, that's for sure!