LSR eBook 13 - Oral Sex For The Woman In Your Life - An Explicit Conversation
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The following techniques provided are a simple guide to teaching you the basics of oral sex or what is known as cunnilingus or "eating out" (and we are not referring to the fork and knife kind of eating either). If you're not much of a vaginal person and are hesitant because of odors, past experiences, or what have you, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you'll be able to let loose.
And remember, any licking, sucking and all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris is surely going to make you popular with your lady of the evening.
Start off slowly
Pretend that her entire vagina is a cherry lollipop and you've been dying to get a lick of it. Start by using your tongue to lick her vagina from her entrance up to her clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax -- enjoy yourself and don't get tense. Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side, whilst keeping all her lips inside your mouth. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterwards.
Stick In Your Tongue
Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were sexing her with it. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.
Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, it can maneuver itself in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Stick your tongue in and out, and when you're in, move your tongue around -- EXPLORE!
Solidify your tongue at first and then allow it to soften, by relaxing your tongue muscles while licking her gently. Changing your cadence will keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be), wondering what your next move will be. Remember there is plenty of time to explore it all. Don't be afraid to roam around, but remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women's orgasms are clitoral -- especially when it comes to cunnilingus. Make sure not to apply too much pressure to her clitoris off the bat because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and, by reading her signals, increase pressure and speed accordingly. In the beginning you may want to ask her if there is any special pressure she would like or dislike, of course, do it without breaking the rhythm.
Intense Vaginal Volume
When you've got her as hot as a lion in heat, the following techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times. With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by pulling it into your mouth momentarily and releasing it, all the while stroking it up and down and around with your tongue. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.
Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it continuously while simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it in a continuous manner, much like using your penis in an in and out manner. You can actually feel the clitoris harden into a female erection. You can perform this technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes and how long she wants to keep going. If you combine the tongue technique with your middle two fingers inside her pussy, you will virtually reach mind-blowing orgasms every time. There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multitalented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become the jack-of-all-trades.
Keeping your hands clean and your nails trimmed is probably the most important tip for any man. After all, if your hands aren't clean, do you think she'll let you anywhere near her sacred garden? Not only can blunt fingernails cause discomfort, they can cause infections of the yeasty kind. So remember that first and foremost, your hands must be clean and your fingernails should be as short and neat as possible.
Using Your Fingers
You don't have to get crazy on her in order to drive her crazy. Pleasuring her with your fingers is a wonderful thing in itself. Use your middle finger to gently rub her clitoris. As she begins to get mildly moist down there, you may become a little more abrupt with your Motions. Circular motions are usually preferred by women.
If she begins to get a little antsy and starts maneuvering around somewhat, read her body language and determine whether she's pleased or not. If she likes to have her clitoris rubbed with one finger, then imagine how much she'll love it if you use two!
When you begin with two fingers, you can become slightly more aggressive since by now she's more receptive to your fingers. Depending on your lady, you can get either more aggressive or remain gentle -- you will know by her reaction.
Fingers and Lips and the G-spot
The reason that fingers are sometimes better than penises is because of their ability to maneuver more adequately. You can always hit the G-spot with your fingers whereas it's a hit-or-miss situation with your penis. The G-spot is a rough little pad inside and above the clit, which gets softer the more you stroke it and is a unique orgasm distinct from a clitoris orgasm. The butterfly wings stroke is a very fulfilling motion for most women. When you put your two middle fingers inside her, make sure she can handle two, don't be afraid to explore her insides. Now I'm not referring to naming all the parts inside her as you touch them, but rather get to know what she likes by her reactions.
While you're French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. Or, if you think that you can literally perform two different motions simultaneously, then while sucking on her clitoris, insert your finger(s) inside her and penetrate her vagina like a penis would rubbing on her G-spot in a butterfly wings motion. Be careful not to lose sight of what you're doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hanging out to dry. Keep up with what you're doing to her. Make sure that you're not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast.
The Tongue's the One
Use your tongue freely and don't be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren't aware of this, but the feeling of your woman letting all of her juice flow all over your mouth is one of the world's greatest aphrodisiacs. No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don't lose your mind while you're in her sacred garden. Don't start drooling all over her vagina and don't do random things -- always have a plan when you're going down. If you feel comfortable, swallow the excess juices.
I can't stress this enough, don't bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you'll probably get thrown out of her house or out of the bed.
Useful Positions
In order to make your self as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Lie on your stomach between her legs. Place both of your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your objective. Your arms wrap around her legs, which in turn, leave your hands free. You can also sit in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, or use a pillow, propping her butt up so that it comes directly into your face. Although this requires a little more strength and could require both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.
Finally, you can have her lie down right at the edge of the bed, make her lie back, lift her feet to rest them on the edge of the bed as well, and you'll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her love cave. You are not restricted to these positions; there are plenty of other ones that guys can use to perform cunnilingus. Remember, don't be shy -- experiment and have fun.