LSR eBook 12 - Oral Sex For The Man In Your Life - An Explicit Conversation
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For most men, there are few greater pleasures than having a woman sucking or licking his penis, giving him a blowjob.
For him, this is the one of the most intimate, loving, and gratifying gifts that a woman can give him. He can imagine that he is the master of everything, that he is the man in control, that he has his penis filling his woman's mouth, making her his sex slave.
But we know who is really in charge, don't we? After all, whose mouth is in command?
This line of thought is extremely exciting; and feeling his excitement, your mouth and tongue will answer his expectations, and you will certainly be having the most amazing and passionate sex ever. So, it is really important to remind you that good oral sex will generate good results for both of you.
But it is known that not all women like to perform oral sex, because they don't think it is clean, normal or easy. Some are afraid simply because they don't know what to do or how, but, as they lose this fear and break this barrier; they acquire a real taste for it, because they are aware of what this kind of practice can do for both of them. Oral sex is one of the greatest intimacies that a couple can share.
There is just one concern that you must have before thinking about performing oral sex. You have to know the person that you are about to engage with, because there is the danger of sexually transmitted diseases. But this is something that you have to be concerned about in every type of relationship and sexual contact, not only oral sex. There are some people who perform oral sex using a male condom, and say the results are the same, both for men and women.
But we all are aware of way men feel about condoms, especially before penetration, but WE HAVE A NEW WAY OF PLACING A CONDOM SO THAT HE WILL GO CRAZY!! He won't say no!! But, if you are both sure about your health, don't waste any more time and learn our amazing techniques.
One of the most satisfying feelings for men in oral sex is the great feeling of seeing everything that is being done to them, everything that is happening. But most men complain that their women don't perform oral sex as much as they would like them to, or that their women just don't like doing it, and when they do, they don't show interest, or worse, they show a lack of interest, which obviously is not pleasant. Needless to say, if you want to be irresistible, a real Sex goddess to your man, you have to really consider performing oral sex on him, and show real interest in it.
There are four things that you mustn't forget before even thinking about performing oral sex: desire, concentration, continuous movements, and control.
1. Desire
You know that attitude is everything, as we have said before. Your desire must be real, you have to know that you are able to give and feel intense pleasure. You have to show that you completely love what you are doing, showing him that his penis is just everything to you! Put it in your mouth with good will, excitement and taste it!
2. Concentration
You should concentrate on your task. Don't let anything or anyone interfere with your concentration. In this way, you will be able to maintain high intensity in your movements and performance.
3. Continuous movements
All movements should be intense but soft, as the penis is an extremely sensitive organ, and men deal with it in a totally different way than we women deal with our vaginas. So, don't make any sudden moves and never stop abruptly.
4. Control
You ALWAYS have to be in control of the situation, and that is the secret of your success. If you are controlling the rhythm and the position of the penis in your mouth, your chances of choking or suffocating will be less. You are the one who is deciding how far the penis is going to penetrate, and if you don't feel comfortable, you just have to remove it. As time goes by and his penis becomes more familiar with your mouth, your capacity to receive it will be much better.
One of the advantages of oral sex is, if you are not in the mood to have sex at a given time and he is in the mood, you can make him come just by performing oral sex, his final sensation will be just the same - rest assured! Or, if you take time to get excited and lubricate your vagina, you could excite yourself by performing oral sex on him, by starting slowly and masturbating yourself at the same time, or even better, you could stay in the 69 position, where he will lick your vagina and his penis will be in your mouth and you can suck his penis until he goes nuts! You could also, whenever you feel ready, turn around and sit on his penis with your vagina, and just watch his reaction to this, he will be thrilled! But be careful, because he could be moments away from coming, and you will have to control it, otherwise your party may be suddenly canceled!
Despite the fact that you are the one that has all the control in this situation, your partner will always think that he was a real stud and that he was in charge throughout the act. He will be proud, full of sexual self-confidence, but deep inside all of the feelings and sensations he just had will be registered in his memory, and whenever he thinks of orgasms, oral sex and indescribable sensations, you will be the first one to spring to mind.
Another doubt that's always on women's minds is one of the things that makes oral sex an unusual practice. The simple question: "Do I have to swallow?" Lets get one thing straight right from the beginning: if you don't feel comfortable swallowing, you just DON'T DO IT! It is as simple as that! Not being able to swallow won't make you a bad lover and neither will it make your partner lose interest in you. It is just the fact that men find it exciting watching their partners swallowing their come, maybe it is because they feel extremely powerful about coming in their women's mouths, feeling special and accepted. So, if you don't want to swallow, if you don't feel comfortable, you just have to remember that for him his semen is not as gross as you think it is, and you have to be careful not to say something bad about it. The best answer that you can always give is that you don't want to do it because you don't feel comfortable about it. And if after all of your explanations, he makes you do it, forget this man, he doesn't deserve you.
There is also the option of letting him come in your mouth and not swallowing, letting it out through the corners of your mouth. You could keep a little towel beside you, and when he comes into your mouth, you turn your back and clean it. Or after the ejaculation you can keep the semen inside your mouth and gently go to the bathroom and spit it out. But if you really want to give your man lots of pleasure, just offer your mouth as a place that he can come any time he pleases and swallow it all at once, this way you'll hardly taste it.
The Latin method of placing condoms
As we have said before, sexually transmitted diseases are a potential issue that should not be ignored. So, in order to protect both of you, we are going to teach you an excellent method of putting a condom on your partner's penis so that he will never complain about it anymore, saying that it is something that breaks the heat of the passion or the moment.
This is the so-called Latin Method, because you will find it hot and spicy!
In other words, you will put the condom on your man without using your hands, instead, you are going to use your mouth, and make him go wild! Before starting, you should be aware that only latex preservatives should be used, because the others do not taste so good and are only recommended for avoiding pregnancy and blocking the semen, leaving the sexually transmitted diseases unblocked. You should avoid condoms that contain nonoxinol-9, which is also horrible to taste and could cause a funny sensation on your mouth and tongue. You also have also to remove your lipstick or anything that you use on your lips, because these products have an oil base and could destroy the condom.
1. Lubricate your lips with water-based lube.
2. Take the condom out of the package and hold it like you are going to unroll it. The right position for this is in a shape of a hat, where you can hold it from the little top.
3. With the condom positioned correctly, hold it by its side pointing down and put a drop of water-based lube inside of it. This lube will be used to softly unroll it along the penis and its most sensitive part - the head.
4. Make a "fish mouth" with your lips and put the top of the condom between your lips, with the rim of the condom outside your lips. Just be careful not to let the lube run out.
5. Hold the penis in one of your hands and move your mouth towards its head.
Place the condom on the head of the penis and gently push it down with your tongue. If you are not able to push it down the full extent of the penis, go as far as you can with your mouth and do the rest with your hand, with your fingers in the shape of a ring.
6. Push gently and be firm, in a continuous movement on the sides of the condom, unrolling it on his penis. Don't forget to cover your teeth with your lips, so you won't hurt him or make a hole in the condom. Once again, if you aren't able to push it all the way down, help with your hands and fingers in the shape of a ring.
If you can't perform the Latin Method perfectly, take it in your stride. You could practice with a dildo or a fruit or vegetable, such as a cucumber for instance. By the way, it's better if you practice a little just to see how it goes.
Some men just love oral sex, and maybe you should practice together sometimes in order to know and discover your rhythm and your mutual responses. Whenever he is ready to come, you will feel a contraction in his balls, and his penis will get really hard. His pelvis will move up and down, indicating that he is about to ejaculate - and this is the time you have to decide what you are going to do, if you are going to swallow or not. Let yourself go with the sensations of the moment, forget what people say about it. Love and sex have nothing to do with clichés and rules. Free yourself!
Oral sex is a really important part of the process of making yourself irresistible to a man, and you should think about doing it at least twice a week, and not just when you are about to have sex. For example, when he is getting out of the shower; or in the middle of the night, when he is asleep you can wake him up by sucking and licking his penis; or even in the shower, after a long day of work, when he could use some rest and relaxation, you could go and give him a little help. We guarantee that neither of you will be sorry!
In order to perform amazing oral sex, you should remember some tips. Look right at his penis, it is hard and delicious, just waiting for you to suck it. Now, think that you are going to kiss it, suck it, and eat it, as you would do with an ice cream. In fact, this is the greatest tip about oral sex; you just have to perform it as if you were eating an ice cream.
Touch his penis gently and softly. Remember that the brain is the greatest sensual zone that we have, and the most sensitive too. Tell him how much you think his penis is strong, hard and sexy, and how it turns you on.
Start by sucking the head, and always remember the ice cream - but this ice cream is much more important and tasty. Pass your tongue over and along the lower part of the penis. Make your tongue as hard as his penis and run it all over it. While you are licking, sucking and biting his penis, touch him on his thighs, pelvis and wherever your hand can reach.
We will now give you some wonderful tips about how to perform oral sex in a way that he won't be able to forget, and we guarantee satisfaction and pleasure for the both of you, just try it now!!
1. Imagine that your mouth is a big vagina, really creative and agile. Open your mouth and cover your teeth with your lips, introducing the penis gently into your mouth. Let it lay down gently on your tongue. With your head do an up and down movement, or back and forth movement, depending on which position you are in. This movement has to be gentle and continuous, just like all the movements that you are about to do. Remember to always cover your teeth with your lips, and increase the speed of the movements as you go along.
Place your hand around the base of the penis and move it up and down, in the same rhythm as the movement of your head, making them go up and down together. Don't stop and restart all the time, don't change the pressure of your mouth and hand and don't change the rhythm suddenly. Try to introduce your tongue inside the little opening of his penis head - it is extremely exciting.
2. Concentrate most on the head, where most of the erotic nerve endings are located. Suck, lick and circle your tongue around the head. Rub the penis in your mouth, your cheeks, on your gums.
3. Try to move your tongue in circles around the penis, going up and down at the same time. This movement can make you get tired a little faster than you want, so, you could make some strategic stops while continuing to suck it as if it were candy, and don't forget to use the hand that is free to touch other parts like the pelvis, balls, perinea and anus. Lots of men have spasms when they are having a blowjob and being touched in the anus at the same time. You must find out the kind of man you are with, he could be one of these lucky ones!
4. Lick and suck his testicles, really gently, putting each ball inside your mouth, one at a time, and if you can, try to put them both inside of your mouth, but be careful not to choke on them. Move your tongue around his balls.
5. Your teeth should be covered by your lips most of the time, in order to protect your man's penis and balls. But on certain occasions, your teeth can be seen as an important sexual instrument. Hold his penis inside your mouth, to the side of your cheek, just like an ear of corn and pass your teeth and tongue along its full extension. Some little bites are welcome, as long as they are soft and gentle.
6. Another great stimulation for those moments when you are tired of performing oral sex is licking his butt area while touching the penis. But be careful because some men are a little ticklish in this area.
7. As we said before, one the most sensitive areas of the man's genitalia is the perinea, which is something of a male G-spot and is located between the testicles and the anus. So, we recommend that you spend some quality time in this area, licking and sucking as long as you want, or as long as he can stand it! It will be better if he lies down on his back and you can hold his thighs with your arms.
8. Still in the perinea area, as you suck his penis, keep touching his perinea gently, but be careful, if you press it hard, he could come before you want him to, so, you just have learn how to hurry him up or slow him down.
9. Fill your mouth with ice before putting his penis inside and just watch his expression!
10. Take his penis and put some honey, jam, syrup, or melted chocolate on it, then lick it all off! Try some ice cream; the results will be outstanding!
11. Some men just love it when oral sex is mixed with some penetration. But don't give it all to him, make him suffer a little bit! Let him penetrate you just once or twice and then go back to the oral sex. Do it one more time, and again and again, but don't let him penetrate you completely. You have to know that suffering is also a means of excitement. Make him suffer!
12. Usually oral sex takes place when a couple is already in bed. But some variations in the position could be interesting. Try to let him stand and go down on your knees in front of him. Give him all he can get, suck him like nobody could do. Go down to his legs and suck his testicles. Make little circular movements with your tongue on his anus, he will go wild!
13. Give him some surprises. Wait until he is on the phone, on a long and important call, zip open his pants and do it!
14. The same can be done when he is bored and watching TV. Just go quietly and unzip his pants. Don't take your clothes off, nor his, just take his penis out and do it!
15. Deep Throat - This is the technique that was made famous by the actress Linda Lovelace. It is not hard to do, but requires some practice. The secret to this wild technique is to align your mouth and throat; you could lie down and let your head hang down off the edge of the bed. That's it, he can penetrate you in the same way that he penetrates your vagina. The tip is to breathe BEFORE he penetrates your mouth, because his penis is going to close the entrance of air through your mouth, and every time he takes his penis out, you can breathe again. If you feel that you are going to choke, swallow and the feeling will go away. It would be important if you could practice with a dildo before trying with your partner. And, if you practice and try with you partner but can't do it, try again and don't lose interest. If you can't perform Deep Throat it doesn't mean that you don't like him or anything like that, or even that you are not the Sex goddess that he was expecting you to be.
Not all women are able to perform Deep Throat, but the ones that can say they really enjoy it. Besides, for those that don't like swallowing come, this technique is highly recommended, because you will feel when he is going to come just by feeling the spasms in his penis and body.
With these tips and techniques, your experience with oral sex will always be pleasant. Just knowing that you are able to offer all these tricks and delicious tips, will make him like you even more, and you will feel more womanly, just knowing you have these skills.
But as with everything in sex, communication is the key. After all, not all of the tips that we have described here should be applied to all men; since your partner is the only one who can tell you which ones he prefers. So, be really open to hear and learn what his needs and desires are. Ask him to write down what he likes, in detail, and try to satisfy him in the best way possible!