LSR eBook 8 - Six Steps For Sexual Self Confidence
Ask Yourself. Am I Present? Awaken the Observer and Come Present to Now.
With great gratitude, appreciation and praise we welcome you to the creation space of self love, courage, inspiration and the peace of mind that comes from gently balancing and lowering your brainwaves.
Listening to this THETA wave will assist you in creating a transformative meditative state, that will quiet your mind, relieve tension in your body, soothe your spirit, and help you remember how good it feels to be fully present in this beautiful moment of now.
Listen to this THETA brainwave as you study the following lesson.
How many times have you looked at those drop-dead-gorgeous women accompanied by just as amazing men and wondered, "What do they have that I don't?" or "How do they get to be like that?" And what about those people that seem to have nothing to offer and do not conform to traditional concepts of beauty, but are always accompanied by handsome, beautiful, considerate, loving, sexy men and women. Well, you might not believe this, but we can assure you that the first attitude of these men and women does not have anything to do with appearance, but self-confidence.
And the only thing you can do to be in the same league as these men and women is to read and apply the six following steps and we guarantee that your life will begin to change in a wonderful way!!
1. In order to be a sexy man or woman you have to feel like one. So think sexy and you will be sexy.
You are exactly what you believe you are. Even if you are not handsome, pretty and slender, according to today's strict standards, you must evoke your sexy self-image. You have to send sensual, powerful, ardent vibrations and we assure you that they will see you as their own sensual God or Goddess. Feeling that sensual spirit, you will naturally do and say tempting and delicious things. Your touch will be electric; your way of looking will be inviting and will certainly raise their body temperature. Beyond that, you have to remember that good sex does not begin in your body, penis or vagina; good sex begins in your head. You must start loving your body as it really is and for how it makes you feel instead of feeling embarrassed by its imperfections.
2. You must look at yourself in a new way, and women and men will start to look at you differently. First you must try to surrender to your favorite sexy and spicy fantasies. Imagine someone is watching you; that a strong man or women is peeping on you. Imagine that wonderful man or women of your dreams making wild love to you, imagine that they are really having sex with you, feel their hands all over your body, murmuring in your ear. Imagine that they think you are the sexiest person in their world. After passing through all of this, get out of the house and take a little walk through the streets or in the park. You will not believe the amazing feedback you will get from the people you come across. And all this feedback is due to your spicy thoughts, because you believed in your dreams for just a moment. Now, can you imagine what could happen to yourself if you really started to feel wonderfully sexy???
3. Your self-image must radiate sexual confidence and assurance. Everything begins in your head. Usually, what is most attractive in a person is her/his self-confidence. Even if a person is extremely exuberant, you will not be attractive to men and women if you feel scared to talk to them, if you are so afraid that you cannot look into their eyes and face them, or if you are constantly worried and embarrassed about your body and what you might say. Such attitudes send negative vibrations to men and women, signaling that this type of person is to be avoided. On the other hand, if a self-confident woman or man appears, they will always send positive vibrations to anyone who is capable of picking up on them. Men and women will be hypnotized by your magnetic appeal. But it is always worth remembering that it is really difficult for anyone to overcome a persons fears, so even a self-confident person should be careful about their fears and vibes. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT SELF-CONFIDENCE IS EROTIC!
4. When you are with him or her, concentrate entirely on them. Try to focus your attention only on him or her. Forget everything that annoyed you during the day. Do not waste time and energy worrying about clothes that do not fit or whether you said the right thing at the right time, or crossed your legs at the right moment or did the right thing at work. Concentrate just on them, thinking about his manly chest, her heavenly boobs, his delicious bottom, her sweet vagina and his divine penis. Try to make them feel that there is nobody in the world more important than they are to you. You must show them that there is no other person as powerful a lover as they are and that they are the only one that fully excites and satisfies you in all imaginable ways.
From the moment you start concentrating on them, you will automatically do extremely provocative things to them, things that will happen naturally as a result of your heightened sexual awareness. You will find yourself doing all kinds of exciting things simply because you feel like it, because you will be extremely tuned in your desire for mutual satisfaction. You will feel all kinds of pleasure just knowing what they are feeling with all that you are giving them.
Pay attention to their reactions so you can continue giving them the things you know they like. All men and women have their secret spots, and your job is to find out where they are! You have to discover your woman's and man's preferences, so the least that will happen is that they beg you for more. And the more you give, the more you get.
Pay attention to the places and ways they touch you, so later you can do the same to them, and you will see the surprised look in their eyes! If they kiss you behind your ears, do the same to them. Without their realizing it, they will be telling you what they really like, and what excites them the most, just by doing it to you. This is a universal need, so take advantage of it and use it to your own benefit.
5. Being a Sex God or Goddess and acting like one is a divine gift. Think that being a Sex God or Goddess is the most important thing for you right now. Know that no other woman or man knows how to express their wishes and show their extreme passion as you do.
Your sexuality is unique because YOU ARE UNIQUE. It is the force of life, a creative, radiant energy. You must know that this power, this gift of energy that transforms and changes everything is yours! And when you are able to see this gift of sexuality in yourself, it becomes all the more radiant and exciting. You will acquire a tempting and luminous sparkle that will last as long as you want it to. In this way, you will be able to appreciate your lover's sexuality and make him or her feel unique. I mean, how can this woman or man resist such a wonderful and sexy person that makes them feel like they are the only person on the face of the earth? In your presence they will find themselves in top form, feeling exactly like a Sex GOD or GODDESS! We guarantee that if you follow all these steps just as we have explained them, it will be impossible for you not to attain a powerful and sensational sex life! But you must always bear in mind that self-confidence and good sex are in your head.
6. Always pay careful attention to your body language. It is scientifically proven that our body speaks. Everything transmits something, the way we sit, our posture, hand movements, folded arms, the way we cross our legs. So, knowing our body better will make our wishes better understood.
Below are some extra bonus tips that will guarantee a positive approach. And if you are concerned about being unnatural in your actions, don't worry! With our tips you will be more self-confident!
Girls while flirting, play with your hair, let it down; make it move!
Cross your legs to show the sides of your thighs.
Look at him then move your eyes away quickly, lowering your head.
Unbutton the top button of your blouse and give him your sexy look.
Keep your lips wet by running your tongue over them.
If you realize that another woman is interested in the same man, don't hesitate - fight for him You must win this man!!
ALWAYS walk sensually. Give him your catwalk!
Men be casual but be available
Stand with ease with hips slightly thrust forward
Don't commit right away, let her work for you
Gaze into her eyes and into her heart with your heart
Don't talk so much let her do the talking and let her ask you to talk
Wear your best clothes on dates and pick up after yourself
Draw her near you gently without force