LSR eBook 2 - 11 Hot Tips In Attracting and Maintaining A Great Relationship
Ask Yourself. Am I Present? Awaken the Observer and Come Present to Now.
With great gratitude, appreciation and praise we welcome you to the creation space of self love, courage, inspiration and the peace of mind that comes from gently balancing and lowering your brainwaves.
Listening to this THETA wave will assist you in creating a transformative meditative state, that will quiet your mind, relieve tension in your body, soothe your spirit, and help you remember how good it feels to be fully present in this beautiful moment of now.
Listen to this THETA brainwave as you study the following lesson.
What if your relationship could be like it was when you first met, when critical and negative attention was kept off each other, you were steamy together, you had deep honor, love and respect for each other, your energy, attention and intention focused on the positive, the dream and possibility of your future together, helping to keep each other focused on their dreams and goals in life and in the moment?
How was it before you lost consciousness and each of your old, sabotaging, subconscious beliefs and programs about control and how to survive started taking over?
Here are some hot tips that could reclaim that fire again or make it brighter, restore your self esteem or maybe just create a great working relationship with the man or woman you are with.
Tip one
Men, the woman is the huntress, controls the nest, procreates and a man can’t be with her unless she says so. She sees you long before you see her and she either likes you or not and will bring you to her nest or not. She hires and fires the man by pulling her juice out of the relationship. Of course men, you do have to be available and strut your peacock self in your own ways or the thousands of years of DNA programming won’t work. Men, until you are committed to the woman you can always get away but once committed about the only ways out are getting fired for being a jerk, infidelity, time and distance or hook up with a more powerful woman who whisks you off to her nest.
Tip two
The woman has an advanced radar system with greater development in the part of the brain that is responsible for relationship, and intuition, as well as advanced multiplexing, deeper insights, feelings and love. A man can ride with that radar and utilize it for their personal expanded insight, protection and growth if they establish sincere trust with the woman. This works in business as well as personal relationships.
Tip three
A man sees the big picture of life and is the intentional fire that ignites the woman's energy, drive, insight and juice into supporting him in his dreams. In a relationship the women is the water and the man is the fire: together in harmony and purpose they create a powerful steamy and juicy relationship.
Tip four
A woman is generally more monogamous than a man, however, both are evolutionarily driven to procreate. A woman’s ovulation cycle is finite and she is naturally thrown to procreate early and in a secure nest. A healthy man’s sperm is endless until an old age. The woman is pregnant for 9 months and cannot conceive again during pregnancy, however, a man can continue to impregnate as often as he desires and these old genetic DNA drives are often a problem which can be overcome if both people understand the drives and redirect those energies into the primary purpose of any relationship...to help keep each other awake and present in the moment beyond the old DNA programs. Typically a great relationship is hot, juicy and effortless only when it is monogamous and aligned in purpose.
Tip five
A woman bonds and releases emotion by talking, while a man bonds and releases emotion by doing activity or by tuning out a noisy mind frequency through mindless activity such as TV or sports. Each should partake in helping each other bond and release in their natural ways with each other and their friends. Bonding creates trust, equality, understanding and a willingness to extend beyond protection programs that have ruled relationships for thousands of years.
Tip six
Most woman require long sexual foreplay for ultimate pleasure where as a man is erect and ready to come and go in a moments notice. A smart man would study the art of lovemaking, Tantra sex, G-spot manipulation and make his woman the happiest in town. A smart woman would learn the same things about a man including prostate manipulation and inspire him on to greatness in their bedroom.
Tip seven
Never try to have your man become more like a woman and woman to become more like a man, thinking that it would be better. Understanding and adapting to living with each other’s genetic gender make up is as far as you should go. Why you might ask? Example, if a woman becomes more like a man and starts taking on major financial burdens, work responsibilities and becomes the man around the house, her femininity suffers, her sexual desires drop off and an energy polarity happens that makes her more masculine. The same goes for a man if he stops bringing home the feathers to the nest or his getting with the guys activities or his manly chores of life, it reverses his polarity, making him more feminine and the first place it shows up is in the bedroom. Of course we all have male and female energy in us and balancing these energies will always create a smoother, more understanding and affectionate relationship with each other.
Tip eight
You should both have independent lives and avoid working together if at all possible. You know to much about each others weaknesses and in an effort to help with what you think is best with each other, will over correct each other for sure. Besides, there is so much more to talk about when you are together less often. Of course establishing trust and possibility through communications of words, intimacy and loving supporting energy will give you the warm fuzzy feelings and confidence to be independent.
Special note about this tip: There are some people who have found a dream together and have unique capabilities in relationship, business and connection skills. If you are one of these people and your significant other is to, you will create a powerful team intention that can move mountains towards realizing your dreams. One more little tip, make sure you treat it like a business if you do work together i.e. job responsibilities, equality, doing what you are good at, make sure you keep up your personal and social life outside of the office and practice tip nine especially.
Tip nine
Everyone remembers your dating times, when you were still exploring life, where you loved to party, get with friends and have fun. Scheduling dinner and dancing dates together or with friends and planning romantic vacations will keep things fresh and fun. Place social events into a high priority on your calendar like you would an important meeting. You are never too old to keep the home fires hot and if you think you are, it's time to re-think things again or end up as one of those statistics that no one wants to be in.
Tip ten
Its worth the work to have your sex life be great. Recent research from State University of New York may encourage having a great sex life. Hormones in semen may help to ease female depression; it has been found that women whose partners don't use condoms are less likely to feel down. Semen contains several mood-altering hormones including testosterone. Some of these hormones have been detected in a woman's blood within hours of exposure to semen. The scientists say semen will have the same effect on women regardless of how they are exposed to it. Just one more great reason to do what everyone loves to do naturally.
Tip eleven
Should your relationship seems stuck in a rut, a great question you must both ask each other is...am I the one for you? If the answer is yes...great! If the answer is no…great! This is a tough question and may not have a black and white answer yet, however, either answer will create an opening, a platform for communications, for aligning in purpose or for creating the clarity to move on. So for now you both have some clarity and can begin to create new possibilities, nurture friendship and get on with reinventing a greater more loving and wonderful connection with you, them and maybe - your future lover.